Thursday, April 7, 2011

His and Hers


Sometimes, it's the little things that can bring a couple closer together. "His and hers" daily activities can be integrated into your duo routine, and make the two of you feel at home with each other.  Letting him be a part of even the most inconsequential parts of your day translates to a greater sense of connectedness. Here are three easy ways to fit into each others' lives:

1. Get ready together. This triggers feelings of intimacy simply because your morning prep isn't something that many usually see.  Moving solo events from private to public provides your man with a sense of inclusion and exclusivity, as he feels special knowing he is one of the few to witness your primping.

2. Cook together. Cooking stirs up thoughts of comfort and home, and these positive feelings transfer to the people involved. Make sure the meal is good: Food stirs up the oxytocin levels in men, a hormone that influences bonding patterns.

3. Watch his favorite television show with him. This gives you a hint of what he likes to do when he winds down. Becoming a part of his stress free routine links you with feelings of comfort and security.

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